Does he already have a special place in your heart and you would just love to find a way to make him fall in love with you? Have you been playing it safe because you're afraid to make a wrong move? Have you been in relationships before and when you fell in love, the guy just turned to walk the other way? It can be tricky finding that perfect balance between showing our emotions and holding back just enough. Read on to find where that balance lies.
Although they may not even realize it, many men feel the need to go out and conquer. When they meet a woman, no matter how hot she is and no matter how badly he wants her, he wants to have to work to win her over. If that hot girl were to simply turn around and fall to her knees in front of him, a little part of him dies.
Put him up to the challenge and make him prove that he's man enough to deserve your attention. As he works to impress you, you'll learn a lot about him and you can also let him see a bit of who you are. This will help create a great bond between you two and this bond will not be dependent on a sexual relationship.
Also ensure the bond is not hindered by your desire to pressure him to move along a little faster than he feels comfortable doing. You may have a set timeline in mind, but remember that he's not working under the same timeline as you are.
Respect the time he needs, and also learn to respect the man that he is. When women have made up their minds regarding the man they love, they often get into the habit of trying to mend the little things they feel are wrong with him. You might think you're well intentioned and that you mean no harm, but from his perspective, you're simply trying to change him and he will not likely appreciate that.
If you've fallen in love with him, love him as you found him.